{"id":3275,"date":"2021-09-19T20:27:50","date_gmt":"2021-09-19T20:27:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/?p=3275"},"modified":"2021-10-26T12:21:50","modified_gmt":"2021-10-26T12:21:50","slug":"in-the-blink-of-an-eye-your-life-can-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/in-the-blink-of-an-eye-your-life-can-change\/","title":{"rendered":"\"Jeta juaj mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb sa hap e mbyll syt\u00eb\"."},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"Jeta juaj mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb sa hap e mbyll syt\u00eb\".<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Un\u00eb jam 17 vje\u00e7, n\u00eb Tetor 2018 mb\u00ebrrita n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt. Po arratisesha nga situata katastrofike n\u00eb vendin tim t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk dua ta kujtoj.\u00a0Edhe pse shum\u00eb i dob\u00ebt dhe i shkat\u00ebrruar emocionalisht, doja t\u00eb ecja p\u00ebrpara. Sapo mb\u00ebrrita aplikova p\u00ebr azil dhe Ministria e Brendshme m\u00eb vendosi n\u00eb nj\u00eb akomodim t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Policia m\u00eb hipi n\u00eb furgonin e tyre dhe m\u00eb shpjeguan se do t\u00eb m\u00eb transferonin n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Vet\u00ebm ideja e t\u00eb q\u00ebnit n\u00eb nj\u00eb makin\u00eb policie m\u00eb frik\u00ebsonte pa mas\u00eb. Nuk m\u00eb besohej q\u00eb ata po m\u00eb ndihmonin, mendimi se ata do m\u00eb kthenin n\u00eb vendin tim v\u00ebrtitej n\u00eb m\u00ebndjen time.<\/p>

Do t\u00eb jetoja me tre djem t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, ku m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ndaja me ta kuzhin\u00ebn dhe tualetin. \u00c7dokush mund t\u00eb imagjinoj\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar, m\u00ebsuar dhe fjetur n\u00eb t\u00eb tilla kushte. Fillova t\u00eb vuaj nga pagjum\u00ebsia. Gj\u00ebrat ishin sfilit\u00ebse q\u00eb para kriz\u00ebs s\u00eb Covid-19. Mezi po mbijetoja, por t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn mbijetova\u00a0<\/p>

Koh\u00ebt e fundit jam shum\u00eb i frik\u00ebsuar. Ankthi dhe stresi ka arritur kulmin tashm\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shtuar shqet\u00ebsimi i pamund\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr tu izoluar n\u00eb kushtet kur strehimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt dhe ndahet me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Dhoma ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e vog\u00ebl. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj kaq shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb thon\u00eb se nuk mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb brenda pa b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj pandemie. Po un\u00eb? Jeta ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrethuar nga kat\u00ebr mure q\u00eb lejojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm aktivitete t\u00eb kufizuara. Nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt ku heshtja nuk mjafton, ku gjith\u00e7ka duket sikur ka ngrir\u00eb. Aty ku frika e infektimit nga virusi \u00ebsht\u00eb prezente \u00e7do moment. Aty ku net\u00ebt duken mij\u00ebra vjet. Sapo hap syt\u00eb, para meje shfaqet dhoma e \u00e7rregullt q\u00eb zgjohet e m\u00ebrzitur nga pakujdesia ime.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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My room is my living room, it’s where I sleep, where I exercise & where I am alone with myself & my thoughts. The window is my garden. I open it to feel the fresh air and pray for better days to come. The night is what I fear the most. I hear a lot of noises in the living room caused by my flatmates. I can\u2019t sleep and occasionally I\u2019m scared to go to the toilet, I fear they may be drunk and become aggressive towards me. I choose to stay in my room, hungry, and not go to the toilet either. Pastaj filloj t\u00eb qaj n\u00eb heshtje, ndihem si nj\u00eb parazit n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhom\u00eb ku asgj\u00eb nuk l\u00ebviz, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhom\u00eb t\u00eb etur p\u00ebr dit\u00eb t\u00eb bukura. Filloj t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroj me sy hapur: Si do t\u00eb ishin gj\u00ebrat n\u00ebse mamaja ime do t\u00eb ishte ulur n\u00eb sallon dhe un\u00eb do t\u00eb shkoja t\u00eb fusja kok\u00ebn n\u00eb prehrin e saj?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Ti thoja sa shum\u00eb po vuaj ose ndoshta vet\u00ebm t\u00eb qaja pa th\u00ebn\u00eb asgj\u00eb.<\/p>

Vuaj nga pagjum\u00ebsia p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ankthit dhe niveleve t\u00eb larta t\u00eb stresit. Ila\u00e7et po m\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb, por gjithashtu m\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb shum\u00eb efekte an\u00ebsore. Ndihem aq i lodhur gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, por nuk mundem t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb banj\u00eb p\u00ebr t'u \u00e7lodhur. Mungesa e higjien\u00ebs nga personat me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndaj sht\u00ebpin\u00eb m\u00eb ndalon t\u00eb b\u00ebj shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra. Nj\u00eb nga dit\u00ebt policia trokiti n\u00eb der\u00ebn time. E hapa der\u00ebn dhe kisha shum\u00eb frik\u00eb, aq i lodhur dukesha pas nj\u00eb nate t\u00eb gjat\u00eb pa gjum\u00eb saq\u00eb ata m\u00eb pyet\u00ebn a ndihesha mir\u00eb. Un\u00eb ja preva shkurt duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se isha mir\u00eb, por thjesht isha i lodhur.<\/p>

Ata m\u00eb pyet\u00ebn n\u00ebse kisha ndonj\u00eb informacion n\u00eb lidhje me Robertin i cili ishte shpallur i humbur. Roberti ishte shoku im i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Ai ishte zhdukur dhe fakti q\u00eb ishte i mitur ishte nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim i madh p\u00ebr policin\u00eb. Ata m\u00eb pyet\u00ebn n\u00ebse mund t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb komisariat p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb p\u00ebr Robertin. Un\u00eb u thash\u00eb se nuk e njoh mir\u00eb. Ata m\u00eb pyet\u00ebn n\u00ebse e kam numrin e tij dhe n\u00ebse mund ta kontrollojn\u00eb telefonin tim. U frik\u00ebsova shum\u00eb, dukej sikur ata dyshuan se un\u00eb e dija se ku ndodhej Roberti.\u00a0P\u00ebrpos gjithe streseve q\u00eb kisha duke jetuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb strehim t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, kjo ngjarje m\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroi dhe stresoi akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Po sikur ky djal\u00eb t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb shp\u00ebrndar\u00ebs droge? Po sikur ai t\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi? Fillova t\u00eb merrja dy pilula nga ila\u00e7et e mia n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb kishte k\u00ebshilluar mjeku, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehesha i lodhur dhe t\u00eb flija gjum\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Stresi po shtohej gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Her\u00eb pas here nuk shkoja n\u00eb kolegj, nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohesha n\u00eb pun\u00ebn time. Mbyllja der\u00ebn e dhom\u00ebs sime duke vendosur dollapin pas der\u00ebs, q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesha m\u00eb i sigurt. Pyesja vazhdimisht punonj\u00ebsin tim social n\u00ebse do t\u00eb m\u00eb l\u00ebviznin n\u00eb nj\u00eb akomodim tjet\u00ebr pasi kushtet ishin t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira n\u00eb strehimin ku jetoja. Aktualisht ata po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb m\u00eb largojn\u00eb nga k\u00ebtu. Rasti im i emigracionit nuk ishte n\u00eb duar t\u00eb mira derisa u njoha me Shpresa Programme dhe Teta Flutr\u00ebn (avokate e t\u00eb rinjve). Ajo ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nga mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebset m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time. Kjo m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb kem m\u00eb pak ankth dhe stres.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye do t\u00eb ndaj me ju se \u00e7\u2019far\u00eb dhe kush m\u00eb ndihmoi t\u00eb vazhdoj p\u00ebrpara.\nUn\u00eb u referova tek Shpresa Programme nga motra ime. Kur shkova atje historia ime u d\u00ebgjua, u ndjeva i kuptuar, mora ndihm\u00ebn e nevojshme dhe njoha njer\u00ebz t\u00eb cil\u00ebve mund t'u besoj.\nAta m\u00eb dhan\u00eb gjithashtu mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar anglisht, pasi anglishtja ime ishte n\u00eb nivele t\u00eb ul\u00ebta.\nTeta Flutra m\u00eb mund\u00ebsoi k\u00ebshillim, u njoha me nj\u00eb k\u00ebshilltar t\u00eb mahnitsh\u00ebm q\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoi t\u00eb kaloja shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Teta Flutra, Teta Luli dhe t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat dhe sh\u00ebrbimet ishin aty p\u00ebr mua dhe p\u00ebr miqt\u00eb e mi shqiptar\u00eb 24\/7 - pa marr\u00eb parasysh n\u00ebse ishte mesnat\u00eb apo mesdit\u00eb ato gjithmon\u00eb i p\u00ebrgjigjeshin telefonit dhe d\u00ebgjonin me kujdes. Nuk e kam iden\u00eb se si ato ja b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb dinin gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn un\u00eb kisha nevoj\u00eb qysh prej takimit t\u00eb par\u00eb. Edhe n\u00ebse Shpresa Programme nuk e ofron nj\u00eb sh\u00ebrbim t\u00eb caktuar ato e din\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb ku t\u00eb t\u00eb referojn\u00eb. \nAto zbuluan aft\u00ebsi dhe pozitivitet tek un\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur un\u00eb mendoja 'Nuk kam vler\u00eb'.<\/em>Refuzoja t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb kolegj, por p\u00ebr shkak se Teta Flutra m\u00eb telefononte \u00e7do dit\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb m\u00eb bindte, tani dua t\u00eb ndjek arsimin e lart\u00eb. Un\u00eb bashkohem me takimet n\u00eb Zoom \u00e7do dit\u00eb, ata m\u00eb japin g\u00ebzim me loj\u00ebrat e tyre arg\u00ebtuese dhe frym\u00ebn pozitive. Mezi pres t\u00eb kthehem n\u00eb klubin e t\u00eb rinjve p\u00ebr t\u00eb luajtur me miqt\u00eb e mi dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb takuar teta Flutr\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb stafin.<\/p>

Ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm, nuk gjykojn\u00eb asgj\u00eb dhe ask\u00ebnd, m\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ndihem krenar. Fal\u00ebnderoj Zotin p\u00ebr ekzistenc\u00ebn e tyre. Fal\u00eb tyre tani rasti im i emigracionit \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb duar t\u00eb sigurta.<\/p>

Ata m\u00eb treguan se \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull t\u00eb qash, edhe pse n\u00eb kultur\u00ebn ton\u00eb, burrat duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb pavar\u00ebsisht gjith\u00e7kaje. Ata m\u00eb m\u00ebsuan se m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrojm\u00eb<\/em> veten, por t'u tregojm\u00eb historit\u00eb tona t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb vendosim gjith\u00eb energjin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur k\u00ebto \u00e7\u00ebshtje.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Nga nj\u00eb i ri tek Shpresa Programme<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cIn the blink of an eye , your life can change \u201c. I\u2019m \u00a017 years old. I arrived in this country for a safe life in October 2018. I was […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3407,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-newsletter"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3275"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3275\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3428,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3275\/revisions\/3428"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3407"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}