{"id":3676,"date":"2021-12-20T23:36:03","date_gmt":"2021-12-20T23:36:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/?p=3676"},"modified":"2021-12-20T23:36:03","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T23:36:03","slug":"a-different-weekend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shpresaprogramme.org\/sq\/a-different-weekend\/","title":{"rendered":"Nj\u00eb fundjave ndryshe nga t\u00eb tjerat"},"content":{"rendered":"

FUNDJAVE NE SUSSEX<\/h2>\n

Gjith\u00e7ka nisi nga nj\u00eb ftes\u00eb e Programit Shpresa p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb rezidenciale n\u00eb SUSSEX. Isha shum\u00eb e lumtur kur m\u00ebsova se do t\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb ndryshe duke filluar nga data 24<\/span><\/i>th of<\/span><\/i> tetor. Un\u00eb dhe shoqja ime, shoqja ime m\u00eb e ngusht\u00eb, Ariana, filluam t\u00eb paketojm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi gati p\u00ebr fundjav\u00ebn e ardhshme. \n\nT\u00eb gjith\u00eb u takuam n\u00eb stacionin Victoria n\u00eb Lond\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb mbanin \u00e7anta t\u00eb m\u00ebdha plot me rroba dhe k\u00ebpuc\u00eb rezerv\u00eb p\u00ebr fundjav\u00ebn.Mb\u00ebrrit\u00ebm n\u00eb vend rreth 1 or\u00eb pasi u larguam nga stacioni London Victoria dhe u nis\u00ebm drejt vendit t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb ku do t\u00eb kalonim fundjav\u00ebn. Makina po kalonte n\u00eb mes t\u00eb pem\u00ebve,dhe dukej si nj\u00eb pyll. Nj\u00eb pamje shum\u00eb qet\u00ebsuese e cila m\u00eb jepte nj\u00eb er\u00eb t\u00eb fresk\u00ebt qet\u00ebsie. Koha e kaluar mes pem\u00ebve, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb e humbur i thash\u00eb vetes. Zbrit\u00ebm dhe nis\u00ebm dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb t\u00eb organizoheshim n\u00ebp\u00ebr dhoma. Mund t\u00eb filloja t\u00eb ndjeja arg\u00ebtimin q\u00eb do t\u00eb kishim. Njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb vend ishin shum\u00eb mikprit\u00ebs dhe na shpjeguan qart\u00eb aktivitetet q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnim k\u00ebt\u00eb fundjav\u00eb.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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Un\u00eb dhe shoqja ime vraponim me emocione p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb dhom\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb gjumit dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shpaketuar gj\u00ebrat tona p\u00ebr t'u p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr sh\u00ebtitjen e nat\u00ebs n\u00eb pyll. Na dhan\u00eb nj\u00eb hart\u00eb dhe disa pishtar\u00eb dhe u nis\u00ebm n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00ebn e pafund t\u00eb pyllit. Isha kaq e emocionuar dhe nervoze n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. Un\u00eb po shtr\u00ebngoja dor\u00ebn e mikes tim m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe po ecja drejt vendit ku po shkonin drejtuesit e ekipit.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Djemt\u00eb vazhdimisht b\u00ebnin shum\u00eb shaka duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb fshiheshin dhe t\u00eb na trembnin n\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00ebn e pyllit. Ishte shum\u00eb qesharake, dhe filloja t\u00eb qeshja pa u ndalur. Kishte pjes\u00eb t\u00eb pyllit t\u00eb mbuluara nga balta, por ne p\u00ebr fat i kishim veshur cizmet dhe marre mjetet e posacme .. Her\u00eb pas here ndalonim dhe konsultoheshim n\u00eb hart\u00eb, p\u00ebr t'u siguruar q\u00eb po shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb drejtimin e duhur. Pylli kishte shigjeta t\u00eb kuqe q\u00eb do t\u00eb na udh\u00ebzonin p\u00ebr t'u siguruar q\u00eb t\u00eb mos humbnim. Ecja zgjati rreth nj\u00eb or\u00eb dhe me pas u kthyem n\u00eb vend. Ishte koha kur do uleshim n\u00ebp\u00ebr tavolina, luanimpwr tw luajtur letra dhe dgjuar muzik\u00eb tradicionale shqiptare. Ndihesha shum\u00eb mir\u00eb kur shihja t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duke u arg\u00ebtuar dhe duke qeshur me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb meritojn\u00eb disa momente t\u00eb mira dhe ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht disa t\u00eb qeshura t\u00eb mira me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, mendova me vete.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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Nes\u00ebr n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ishin zgjuar her\u00ebt. U ul\u00ebm dhe h\u00ebngr\u00ebm m\u00ebngjes s\u00eb bashku dhe u b\u00ebm\u00eb gati p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb plot sfida. Udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsja jon\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb dit\u00eb, Cat u prezantua dhe shpjegoi se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb gjat\u00eb dit\u00ebs. Dukej shum\u00eb arg\u00ebtuese, dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ishin aq t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe mezi prisnin. \u2018Le t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb\u2019\u201d M\u00eb gati se kurr\u00eb\u201d, ishin disa nga z\u00ebrat n\u00eb sfond q\u00eb mund t\u00eb d\u00ebgjonit. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb vesh\u00ebm veshjet e duhura t\u00eb siguruara nga qendra, mor\u00ebm pajisjet e nevojshme dhe u nis\u00ebm n\u00eb pyll. Car tha: \"A jeni gati t\u00eb filloni me nj\u00eb aktivitet t\u00eb leht\u00eb apo sfidues?\" T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ishin gati p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sfid\u00eb<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0\"Kap topin\". sfida jon\u00eb e par\u00eb e cila k\u00ebrkonte shum\u00eb pun\u00eb\nekipore dhe komunikim verbal. Q\u00ebllimi i k\u00ebsaj loje ishte kalimi ii topit n\u00eb pik\u00ebn e finishit pa prekur\ntok\u00ebn. Loja filloi dhe topi po rrotullohej n\u00eb duart tona. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb vraponin dhe udh\u00ebzonin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin\nse ku duhet t\u00eb shkonin m\u00eb pas dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund, ia dol\u00ebm me prov\u00ebn e par\u00eb. Cat ishte aq i\nimpresionuar kur pa, se ne e p\u00ebrfunduam sfid\u00ebn n\u00eb prov\u00ebn e par\u00eb. Loja tjet\u00ebr ishte kalimi i\npengesave. Q\u00ebllimi i loj\u00ebs ishte q\u00eb e gjith\u00eb skuadra t\u00eb kalonte penges\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr kohore.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Duke shkuar m\u00eb tej n\u00eb pyll, do t\u00eb vinin m\u00eb shum\u00eb sfida p\u00ebr ekipin ton\u00eb. Ky i radh\u00ebs\nishte t\u00eb ecje n\u00eb nj\u00eb litar me nj\u00eb shok ekipi dhe t\u00eb sigurohesh q\u00eb t\u00eb ruash ekuilibrin deri n\u00eb pik\u00ebn e\nfinishit. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ishin kaq t\u00eb emocionuar dhe nervoz\u00eb. B\u00ebm\u00eb edhe gara t\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Gara mes\nskuadrave ishte e pabesueshme, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb nxitonin t\u00eb kalonin pengesat n\u00eb pik\u00ebn e finishit sa m\u00eb\nshpejt q\u00eb t\u00eb ishte e mundur. \u201cArratisja nga burgu\u201d, kjo sfid\u00eb p\u00ebrfshinte nj\u00eb dritare t\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb mund\nt\u00eb na ndihmonte t\u00eb arratiseshim nga burgu POR nuk na lejohet t\u00eb prekim cepat e dritares,\np\u00ebrndryshe do t\u00eb vinin gardian\u00ebt dhe do t\u00eb na shtynin p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb burg. Kishim nj\u00eb d\u00ebrras\u00eb druri dhe\nnj\u00eb cilind\u00ebr t\u00eb madh q\u00eb do t\u00eb na ndihmonte t\u00eb iknim nga burgu. Arrit\u00ebm t\u00eb gjenim nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t'u\narratisur duke vendosur d\u00ebrras\u00ebn e drurit n\u00eb maj\u00eb t\u00eb cilindrit. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb po ndihmonim nj\u00ebri-tjetrin\np\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr pa prekur an\u00ebt. Sfida u arrit n\u00eb fund, duke u ndjer\u00eb aq krenar\u00eb p\u00ebr\npun\u00ebn ton\u00eb ekipore, ne u kthyem n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb drek\u00eb. Pasi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb push ute nesermen u\nnisem dhe, shkuam n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn e pasme t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00ebs duke u p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr ngjitje.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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Kaluam nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb\nmrekullueshme duke u ngjitur aq lart sa mundemi dhe duke b\u00ebr\u00eb gara mes nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. M\u00eb von\u00eb\npasdite ishte pjesa m\u00eb emocionuese kur shkuam p\u00ebr ecje ku ishte shum\u00eb balt\u00eb. Pylli ishte plot me\n\npem\u00eb t\u00eb rr\u00ebzuara, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e b\u00ebnte t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ne t\u00eb ecnim. Na b\u00ebri t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve t\u00eb ndiheshim si ne\njemi n\u00eb nj\u00eb mision ku duhet t\u00eb kalojm\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha sfidat p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbijetuar. Ne ishim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duke\nndihmuar nj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00ebse dikush kishte v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi\nKat tha sfida e rralles \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb notosh ose t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh n\u00eb balt\u00eb. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb qeshnim dhe thoshim se nuk\ndo t\u00eb donim te perlyhemi dhe te behemu balt\u00eb, por pasi nj\u00ebri prej nesh u hodh, ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e\nndoq\u00ebm. Ishte nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb e pabesueshme<\/span><\/i>n the afternoon, the most exciting part was when we went hiking where it was very muddy. <\/span><\/i>The forest was full of fallen trees which made it challenging for us to walk. It made all of us feel like we <\/span><\/i>are on a mission where we need to go through all the challenges in order to survive. We were all\u00a0<\/span><\/i>helping each other if anyone was struggling.\u00a0<\/span><\/i>Kat said that\u00a0 the challenge is to swim or jump in the mud. We were all laughing and saying that we would not want <\/span><\/i>got muddy but after one of us jumped, we all followed. It was an unbelievable experience.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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t\u00eb gjith\u00eb filmonin dhe b\u00ebnin shaka me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb hidheshin mbi balt\u00eb. M\u00eb kujtoi koh\u00ebn kur isha <\/span><\/i>nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vog\u00ebl dhe besoj se shum\u00eb u ndien keshtu . U ndjeva shume mir\u00eb q\u00eb ky kamping stampoi shum\u00eb\u00a0<\/span><\/i>buz\u00ebqeshje n\u00eb ftyrat tona.Ishte koha q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ktheheshim n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, t\u00eb hanim dark\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebnim dush dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebheshim gati p\u00ebr\u00a0<\/span><\/i>t\u00eb ndezur zjarr. Kishte qen\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb e gjat\u00eb, plot aktivitete dhe sfida por askush nuk ndihej i lodhur.\u00a0<\/span><\/i>Mezi po prisja se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb sillte mbr\u00ebmja. Ne mor\u00ebm pishtar\u00ebt tan\u00eb. Scoot ishte udheheqesi <\/span><\/i>i skuadr\u00ebs k\u00ebsaj radhe\ne cila do t\u00eb na ndihmonte t\u00eb ndiznim zjarrin. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb i mbajn\u00eb mend net\u00ebt e ftohta t\u00eb\nvjesht\u00ebs t\u00eb strukur p\u00ebrreth\nzjarrit me familjet tona...\u00a0<\/span><\/i>Zjarri im i par\u00eb ishte me shok\u00ebt e mi t\u00eb skuadr\u00ebs k\u00ebt\u00eb fundjav\u00eb n\u00eb pyll\u00a0<\/span><\/i>row.<\/span><\/i> \u00a0Ishte fundi i tetorit dhe h\u00ebna ishte e plot\u00eb. Ajri mbante er\u00eb t\u00eb fresk\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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\u00a0Ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb<\/span><\/i>\u00a0batanija e ngroht\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb mbron trupin nga ajri i fresk\u00ebt i nat\u00ebs, ose ndoshta mendimi se\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

kemi nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kontrolli mbi nj\u00eb nga element\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb pakontrolluesh\u00ebm n\u00eb bot\u00eb, zjarrin. Cilado\u00a0<\/span><\/i>qoft\u00eb arsyeja, e di q\u00eb t\u00eb ulesh pran\u00eb zjarrit me miqt\u00eb e mi \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0<\/span><\/i>me miqt\u00eb e mi \u00ebsht\u00eb qetesi shpirterore dhe se\n\u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrtej fuqis\u00eb sime t\u00eb shpjegoj se sa mir\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihem. Esht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga ato\u00a0<\/span><\/i>gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shpjegohen, kujtimet e lumtura m\u00eb jan\u00eb shkruar n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, b\u00ebm\u00eb gjuajtje me hark dhe zip wire. Un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb nj\u00eb nga t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb kurr\u00eb\u00a0<\/span><\/i>nuk kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb gjuajtje me hark m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe kjo ishte nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb e re emocionuese. Ashtu si tek zip wire <\/span><\/i>mund t\u00eb ndjeje tensionin n\u00eb aj\u00ebr.Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e motivuam nj\u00ebri-tjetrin p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e mahnitshme se si\u00a0<\/span><\/i>puna n\u00eb grup mund t'i b\u00ebj\u00eb gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb ndodhin.\u201cNe shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb natyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t'u qet\u00ebsuar, p\u00ebr t'ush\u00ebruar dhe p\u00ebr\u00a0<\/span><\/i>t\u00eb vendosir gjerat ne rregull\u201d. K\u00ebshtu m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb ndihem kjo fundjav\u00eb. M\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohem <\/span><\/i>n\u00eb shpirt , t\u00eb pastroj mendjen time nga mendimet e pad\u00ebshiruara dhe t\u00eb kthehem p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar \u00e7do sfid\u00eb q\u00eb sjell jeta.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

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